Growing up in the 1960s I learned many things, but Boiling Eggs and Paper Cups and Daughters might be more than one may believe, or, in the latter case, care to hear. However, I learned of these things as a member of the Boy Scouts of America (1965) which I was active in until my high school graduation. In addition to school and my chosen sports, Scouting was an integral part of my youth and development. There I functioned as a member of a troop, a Program Ranger at a Scout Camp for two years, earned my God and Country Award, the Order of the Arrow, the rank of Life Scout and evidently how to raise two little girls.
In 1970, I attended my first summer scout camp on the eastern slope of the Appalachian Mountains and spent my first, glorious week living in a tent. I went every summer thereafter until 1978, the last two being the entire summer as a Program Ranger. What, one may ask, could one learn about daughters, living in a tent on a lake, swimming, fishing, tying ropes and bounding around with boys, shooting bows and .22 rifles at the ranges? Respect. It was all somewhat structured, but one could choose what to participate in. There were young men from all over the region, different colors, religions, backgrounds; but only one dining hall, one lake, one chapel. The uncoordinated effort of a dozen or so adolescent and teenaged boys raising a thirty foot timber tower will definitely built the appreciation of your partners’ effort, regardless of his difference or similarities.
In 1990, I was blessed with our first child. I’ll call her the Princess, seven years later another, my Dumplin’. I have tried to raise both with the same exposure I had to the outdoors and with the same appreciation of their efforts, despite our differences. To date, I can report wonderful. Regardless of gender, I think the promotion of traditional scouting concepts is one of the best means of growing a child; respect for self, others and appreciation for adventure.
Okay, the egg and the paper cup. Build a small fire, fill a paper cup, not one of those plastic or foam ones, a paper cup, waxed is okay, with water; put in an egg and place the cup with the egg in the fire. When that egg boils in that paper cup, you will have your four year olds attention, keep it. While you are at it, teach that little girl to shoot a bow!

References
The Boy Scouts of America. (1965). Boy Scout Handbook. New Brunswick, USA: Author.
In 1970, I attended my first summer scout camp on the eastern slope of the Appalachian Mountains and spent my first, glorious week living in a tent. I went every summer thereafter until 1978, the last two being the entire summer as a Program Ranger. What, one may ask, could one learn about daughters, living in a tent on a lake, swimming, fishing, tying ropes and bounding around with boys, shooting bows and .22 rifles at the ranges? Respect. It was all somewhat structured, but one could choose what to participate in. There were young men from all over the region, different colors, religions, backgrounds; but only one dining hall, one lake, one chapel. The uncoordinated effort of a dozen or so adolescent and teenaged boys raising a thirty foot timber tower will definitely built the appreciation of your partners’ effort, regardless of his difference or similarities.
In 1990, I was blessed with our first child. I’ll call her the Princess, seven years later another, my Dumplin’. I have tried to raise both with the same exposure I had to the outdoors and with the same appreciation of their efforts, despite our differences. To date, I can report wonderful. Regardless of gender, I think the promotion of traditional scouting concepts is one of the best means of growing a child; respect for self, others and appreciation for adventure.
Okay, the egg and the paper cup. Build a small fire, fill a paper cup, not one of those plastic or foam ones, a paper cup, waxed is okay, with water; put in an egg and place the cup with the egg in the fire. When that egg boils in that paper cup, you will have your four year olds attention, keep it. While you are at it, teach that little girl to shoot a bow!
References
The Boy Scouts of America. (1965). Boy Scout Handbook. New Brunswick, USA: Author.

